Why is it when you start trying to conceive no one tells you how difficult or gutwretching the process is?

Every month you plan and wait, either to be greeted by AF or a positive test that has the possibility to end in loss.

I'm currently experiencing a chemical pregnancy, my second pregnancy, my second loss, in less than a year. It incredibly depressing. I've been worked up for PCOS and my levels were beautiful. Nothing indicated anything wrong with me. After my first loss in November, it took until May for me to ovulate on a normal schedule. I'm just currently terrified that it'll take that long again, or that I'll just continue to be met with losses.

I'm just at a loss of what to do. I'm trying to remain positive, it's just so damn hard.

Can any of you beautiful ladies please share your positive stories of successful pregnancies after multiple losses? And, if you did anything differently?

Thank you ❤