Am I the only one who’s never had an orgasm?

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Before I start let me say that I’ve had orgasms.... that are self induced 😂 I’ve had sex with four guys in my life (I’m still pretty young not even 20 yet) including two long term relationships and have never been able to reach an orgasm. Am I alone?!!

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I think you would orgasm with "the one". I had sex with several people and never orgasmed with any of them. Once I met my husband and we had sex I had orgasmed. We both let each other know what we want and like during sex.

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Nope. I never did until I was with my husband. I had 6 sexual partners before him. Honestly a lot of guys don’t know what they’re doing and I was too shy to speak up. Luckily my husband is just good 🤷‍♀️

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It’s not necessarily the person, the “one” may not even know what he’s doing and you control your orgasms! Tell him what you want or play with yourself while hes penetrating to help get you there. People rarely orgasm from just penetration alone, it’s really not unusual at all. You just have to find what works for you and get comfortable communicating it, your partner isn’t a mind reader and is doing what they *think* will work because it worked for a previous partner, but everyone’s different. Good luck!

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I’ve only been able to have an orgasm with a partner during oral lol