On to 8th month TTC

This is the point where I am starting to get so scared.

I track everything so feel like it should have happened by now and i don’t know what’s wrong.

Please please tell me success stories or anything you did differently to conceive when it’s getting close to a year of TTC.

I really need hope and or tips for dealing with this so it doesn’t take over my life or define me. I feel so embarrassed about it or shamed and like I am letting everyone down.