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(For context im 16) My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and we’re thinking about taking it to the next level and having sex ? But how do I do that? I wanna be able to not be really worried about my parents. Any advice? I also wanna give him head but I have no clue how... im new to all of this....

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Don’t start straight with sex, you gotta go slow and figure stuff out along the way. Give him a hand job, then a blowjob, let him do that stuff to you. Not only will you gradually build confidence and get more comfortable with one another but that also will build up your desire to do more, you’ll feel instincts better cause you aren’t so distracted by being nervous. You’ll know when you’re ready for sex and it won’t seem so scary with all that other stuff out of the way and the experience

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Hi love! I remember being in your exact situation quite a few years ago. I’m almost 23 now and actually still with (married to) the same guy from when I was in high school! we have now been together 8.5 years and have a 6 month old babe 🥰 anyways, start by giving head. DONT go straight to sex and google is your friend! There are lots of articles like magazine articles about giving head it’ll help!! Also porn can help too if that’s something you’re willing to explore! I think my husband (then boyfriend) and I waited almost 2 years before having sex but did probably everything else in the books before actual sex. Just make sure you’re comfortable with it and make sure you use condoms and practice safe sex! Best of luck!

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I agree with everyone don't go straight to sex. Explore each other, hand jobs and blow job make sure he pleases you too it's only fair lol. Hand jobs make sure you use spit or lube other wise it feels like sandpaper to them. But when you give him head go easy with the teeth you don't want to scratch him so cover them with your lips and a lot of spit is key. (Breathe through your nose if you tend to gag helps to slightly cancel out your gag reflex) Make it sloppy in a way the more spit the faster you'll have him in the palm of your hand. Mouth and hand together will always do the trick! Definitely have him go down on you girl just explore and have fun with it if it leads to sex it does but if you're not comfortable in the moment of it don't feel pressured to do it okay? Go with your gut❤️

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And just make sure you’re on birth control and use condoms EVERY TIME it’s better safe than sorry. That’s for pregnancy and stds because you never know. And about your parents just find time when they aren’t home or if they start to trust you being in each other’s rooms or somewhere you can get by with it.

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With my boyfriend now i had done other stuff with more guys before him but never had sex sex so I was experienced and he had only had sex one time and nothing else really so overall I was more experienced but we were both comfortable. Smart small and work up and ONLY do it if you’re ready. We did it not long into our relationship but I don’t regret it at all because I trust him! Just ease yourself into it

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