Going a little cray cray! Any advice?

Question

Soo we just got done with ovulation week. I feel bad because when we agreed to start trying, we would keep it fun. But I've kind of taken over and made it more of a strict chore. I had to take a step back and realize how NOT fun I was making this process. But I'm sure you can see where I was coming from though🤷🏻‍♀️ Also, I had been having genger reveal dreams 2 weeks before my husband sat me down and said he wanted to make a baby. Now I'm having those dreams every night. So now I'm obsessing over it even in my sleep😭 I already know I'm going to be googling every single thing and obsessing over this app🤦🏻‍♀️ Any tips to be less crazy and obsessive?😭🤣

Answer

We wanted to make it a fun process too but it’s hard not to “plan” sexy time during your fertile window. So before you know it you’re scheduling days to have sex and at one point he turned me down cuz he was not in the mood. I broke down crying alone in the bathroom but later we spoke and I told him I don’t like making this not a fun process either but how can you let it just be like whatever when the chances are higher during the fertile window, let’s be honest having sex everyday even every other day can be exhausting. So although we have sex on non fertile days on those fertile days he knows that it’s go time 🤦🏻‍♀️I know it’s sad. I’m currently in my tww and it’s hard not to obsess over everything. All I see are other pregnant women everywhere I go. It’s like they were probably there before but I just didn’t notice all the pregnant woman until I wanted to be pregnant. This is month 5 of trying. Gonna go get a massage later cuz they say you need to learn to relax during the tww among other things cuz trust me I’ve researched. Well I hope this long ass comment helped you a little lol. Best of luck and baby dust to you!

Going a little cray cray! Any advice?

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