My SO and I have been together almost ten years, married two this past June, but we've had a rocky relationship from the start. I got pregnant after only dating for 3/4 months and he wasn't ready for another kid ( had one from a previous marriage). He's cheated on me, I've kicked him out and dated other people. I've been emotionally unavailable. All sorts of issues.

My biggest one now is working and finances. I've been the ONLY ONE working 7/8ths of the time. He's worked maybe a combined 11-12 months throughout our ENTIRE relationship. I'm just sick and tired of it. On top of that, he rarely takes care of our kids, doesn't help me cook or clean ect. I'm just over it.

I know my kids would have a hard time with it at first, but I've given him chance after chance after chance to try and get better. Mentally, physically, emotionally.

I don't know how much more I can take of it without completely losing my mind. :(

I guess I just need advice. What would you do if you were in my situation?