I’m 19 the dude I might be talking to is 30ish with a 9 year old and I’ll be having a newborn in October he doesn’t mess with his baby mother because she doesn’t do anything for her son and my baby father said he wasn’t doing shit for my daughter because I won’t worship the ground he walks on and crawl back to him n let him control me. My question is would it be bad to explore my options with someone who has their head on straight who takes care of their child by them self works hard to provide for them as well or would that make me seem fast to find someone mind I’ve been single since I been pregnant so I have thought a lot about it.

He knows I’m pregnant and said he would see her as his own as long as I see his son as my own .

BEFORE YOU COMMENT I SAID “ TALKING TO “ not in a relationship with already 🤦🏽‍♀️