i’m 18, i just (officially) broke up with my baby’s father yesterday, after receiving out of the blue texts about how he wants his old life back, never wanted a kid, and that i forced our relationship in the first place, that he’s miserable every day. (?!?!??) i just find it all hilarious but i can’t even get started bc i won’t stop.

anyhow, he’s said things like this before and immediately taken them back and said he was so stupid or having an off day. in fact, the last time this happened was a few weeks ago and when he inevitably came back sorry, i asked if he was SURE this is what he wanted this timed because this is the last time he’s doing this to me. fucking with my head.

well, here we are again and like i said, it was the last time. not happening anymore. i always forgave him for his actions, never asked him for shit because i didn’t want HIM to feel overwhelmed and just wanted us to work, he hasn’t even changed a single one of our 4 month old’s diapers. he goes a week plus without coming to see him. yet i never asked anything of him.

i’m so beyond hurt. i told him since we make him so miserable, we’re gone. that was the last text i sent him and he responded not getting the memo apparently. he’s been texting me throughout the day asking when he was going to see our son.

mind you, he hasn’t bothered to stop by for two weeks prior to this all happening. (i felt it coming) and now says his life is miserable and he never wanted his son. am i supposed to feel sorry for not responding? i made it clear in my texts i was doing him a favor leaving him alone.

now his mother is texting me asking me about how my son is doing. before i had him, she said if i had any doubts, that she would adopt him, and made me promise i’d go to her if i ever needed anything of that nature.

i’m sure you can imagine she won’t let up. i don’t know the legalities of simply ignoring texts, and i know it won’t last forever, but at the moment i need time to clear my head and decide what to do, and more importantly let my emotions play out because i can’t even stand speaking to him right now.

idk what to do. idk what they can do. just please help me out ladies, give me advice, anything. i made it clear numerous times i NEVER wanted things to end up like this, forgave him for all his bullshit, cheating mental and emotional abuse ALL because i wanted us to be together. i’m so done. please help me out.