Cause for concern or normal?

I am a virgin.

When 'feeling myself' I experience a stinging sensation wherever I touch that is more so painful than pleasurable. Is this what it's meant to feel like? Is it normal? Am I doing something wrong? Too tense perhaps?

Also, my v-hole seems SUPER tight. Am I just not getting myself aroused enough etc, or is there a problem?

Help for the inexperienced please 😕