Cause for concern or normal?

Question

I am a virgin. 
When 'feeling myself' I experience a stinging sensation wherever I touch that is more so painful than pleasurable. Is this what it's meant to feel like? Is it normal? Am I doing something wrong? Too tense perhaps?
Also, my v-hole seems SUPER tight. Am I just not getting myself aroused enough etc, or is there a problem?
Help for the inexperienced please 😕

Answer

Getting fully aroused is a process. When you start out, you may be dry. So touching your clitoris directly can be painfull. You have to start by touching arond and over the hood until you get a bit more aroused. 
You can also use a bit of saliva on your finger, or once you are aroused, there may be some very slippery fluid around or just inside your vaginal opening. Just dip your finger and use that fluid. You can also use some personal lubricant that you can find where they sell condoms at your local supermarket or pharmacy.
Once you get fully aroused, it should be easier to put your finger inside your vagina. Make sure it is lubricated (lube, saliva or your own fluids), take it slow, just a little bit deeper with every push.
If you think you are too tense, you can try the following:
Contract your pelvic floor muscles for a few seconds, then release it and push out like you are trying to pee. Repeat this a few times. (If you want to read a little bit more about this, google ‘kegel exercises’). This will teach you how it feels when you are tensed up, and when you are relaxed.
Have you taken a look at yourself in the mirror? It in front of a mirror and make sure you have enough light. Open your lips and take a good look and feel. When you still have a virgin hymen, it may be partly blocking the entrance. There is a very small chance that the hole may be very small, but it should be very elastic and stretch when you push your finger inside.

Answer

Where do you feel this stinging sensation?

Cause for concern or normal?

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