Hernias and sex

My husband and I fuck pretty much everyday. If we’re not it’s a bj or hand job. He has a hernia which sometimes bugs him during sex and sometimes hurts after sex. His father and grandfather had them and they’re quite common for men so he attributes it to that and work. However, I think part of the reason he has a hernia is because of sex. My ass doesn’t have that much cushion lol and he goes hard and fast sometimes. I could do with less sex and I think that his body could do with less sex. But he’s always horny. I don’t want to tell him that we should have less sex to help his hernia to stop getting worse because it makes him feel negatively towards sex. So I guess I’m just venting here. Anyone else have a partner with a hernia but he just won’t stop fucking? Haha