I NEED ADVICE!!!!!

Kate

So whenever me and my boyfriend mess around I’m okay with some stuff but if I’m not in the mood and I tell him not to touch my vagina, he stops, but then later he’ll try again and I told him if I say it once then it will still mean I’m not in the mood until I say otherwise. I’ve gotten mad at him about this in the past because it seems like he’s not respecting me saying no but it’s also not like he’s acting rapey or anything. I REALLY need advice on how to either stop this behavior or change something in the relationship. Thank you!!