How to regulate my cycle?

Alissa • Mommy of 4👩‍👧‍👦 💙💜💙 three handsome kings and a beautiful queen 💙💜💙 6 in heaven 😥

It took me 3 years to conceive my son naturally. And my daughter it took over a year. I've been tracking for the last few months but I've been trying for allot longer. I've noticed I'm never regular. My periods never on the same day. I never ovulate on a proper time frame if I'm even ovulating at all. And idk what to do. What did you do to regulate your cycle and how long did it take. I just want my rainbow :(