Me and my husband have been married for a year and have been together for 2 we got married really young (me 18, him 19) we’re completely stable and everything with us is great but his mother absolutely kills me. My sister just moved and was needing a table because she didn’t have one and we knew a person who was giving one away but it was first come first serve. Since my sister lives in a different city me and my husband asked his parents if we could use their truck or have them help us get the table and even offered to fill the truck up before we brought it back. My relationship has always been weird with them because they kicked my husband out the day he turned 18 for no reason other than that he was 18 and my husband had no where to go so he stayed with my family since I was only 17 and my parents didn’t want him to stay with me. So anyways instead of just saying that no she wouldn’t do that she had to send my husband a big long text saying how much she hated my family and how they were so horrible. Then that text was followed by how horrible of a daughter in law I was because I didn’t go over there basically every day. I work 10 hour shifts 5 days a week, the last thing I want to do after work or on my weekends is spend time with people who treat me and my family horribly. Me and my husband have done more for her own kids than she ever has, if they need a ride we take them, if they don’t have food at the house we bring them some. So I guess what my question is what should I do about her? I want to have a good relationship with her because she’s the mother of my husband but it seems impossible to, she’s never once apologized to how she treats me and I’ve never done anything out of the way towards her I just refuse to go over there after she says all of the things she does about me...