I seriously don’t know what to do


Okay so I live in a small town in Virginia and my spouse’s family living in Upstate New York. We’ve talked about moving up there before but now we’re seriously talking about doing it in the next year, it’s about a 7 and a half hour drive from my house and honestly, I still live with my mom, we want our own place so bad and would have an apartment set up already if we move up there. But I’ve never been away from my momma or my family and I’m absolutely terrified to leave them. I haven’t discussed it with them yet because I’m scared they’re gonna be upset with me. I have a young neice and nephew and they mean the world to me and I’m scared that even if we visit a lot during the year, they’ll forget about me. I want to move there so bad so I can get my life started but I really don’t want to upset my family. They’re all supportive as hell but I don’t know. I’m freaking out. So I really don’t knowwww what to do 😭😭😭