Husband frustrates me

This is a complete rant but I need to do it. My husband is so annoying lately. I am a sahm to a beautiful 3 month old boy. My husband feels that since I stay home, he should not have any responsibilities for the house or our son. He also wants to try for baby 2 in a couple months and I had to say no. I can't do it by myself anymore. I did not make this baby by myself so I don't understand why he is refusing to help. He keeps saying" both my sister in laws did it just fine. I don't know why you are having a hard time" well let's look at it.... They didn't breastfeed, their husbands helped, and they had daycare. Hmmmm wonder why! Super annoyed! I don't know how to make him understand