Is it considered cheating if your significant other goes out late at night to just “chill”and “smoke” with a girl that you are unaware of?

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My bf went out without telling me with a coworker of his to go “chill” and “smoke”.
I didn’t find out threw him I saw some texts with one of his friends talking about kicking it with this specific  girl late at night. That I never new about. I don’t know what to make of this situation:((

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It’s not cheating but it’s not ok either. My fiancé is next to me reading it and here’s his thoughts on it... If a guy is smoking and hanging out with a girl at night, that’s already a red flag. To make it worse, he didn’t tell you. Makes me think something else is going on.

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When someone is going to hang out to “chill and smoke” they usually take it to the next level and fuck. Been there, done that

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It’s cheating, if he has to hide it or keep it from you he knows it’s wrong. Cheating is not just about sex it’s emotional support too. If he nothing to hide he would have let you know.

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I wouldn't consider this cheating but completely unacceptable.  When you're not upfront about what you're doing with any gender it's not ok. Do you guys not live together?

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I would consider it cheating.. he lied to u and why lie in the first place ? also why hang out with another female so late at night when he could be spending time with u and kicking it with u.. friend or not.. it isn't appropriate and asking for problems.

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To me cheating just as an about him kissing her we’re doing for play with her or him having sex with her. He felt the need to hide it from you and not tell you anything about it then yes he is more likely either already sleeping with her or on his way to sleeping with her, just keep your guard up and don’t let him take you for a ride

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If he’s hiding it its cheating

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Is it considered cheating if your significant other goes out late at night to just “chill”and “smoke” with a girl that you are unaware of?

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