Chemical Pregnancy? Doctor wants to do an D&C

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So I just found out I'm pregnant about two weeks ago. Got blood work 4 times and my numbers are going up, but not doubling. So the doctor wants to wait 10 days to see if I miscarry and if I don't, he wants to do a D/C. My thing is what if they got it wrong? What if I'm not as far as they think? Has anyone had this happen to them? I have a gut feeling that I will carry this baby and it's not a chemical pregnancy, my numbers are going up at least. I could see if they are dropping, but they are not. I don't want to make a mistake, I feel like I want my body to do the talking and if I don't carry this baby, my body will pass the baby. They could have it totally wrong! Please share your experiences with me?!

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I had the same issue and they doubled after that third day. Some women's bodies move at different paces. 10 days is ample time honestly and if you don't bleed by then but have number that aren't increasing at all then I'd go ahead and sadly call it a loss. I've had 4 natural miscarriages but sadly many women need a procedure or pill; it's all so sad really. I saw my fetuses and just cried. I'm sending you a hug💕

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I would not risk aborting my baby! Let God work this out and trust your mommy senses.

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Tell him you'd like to wait a couple weeks.

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Have they done an ultrasound?

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There's no way I'd let them do a D&C without an ultrasound and not unless my numbers were dropping significantly.

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Don't do it girlfriend!!! Your body will handle it (we're made for it) and if it's meant robe you don't want to risk losing your baby! Don't let the doctors pressure you into an abortion. That's YOUR baby and God gave you that baby for a reason so don't give in. If you're meant I carry to term, you will and if not, your body will miscarry on its own. Prayers for you! ❤️

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Definitely don't do something you aren't comfortable with. You'll always wonder what would've happened if you trusted your instincts! Good luck, Mama

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Tell him no for now. Your body should miscarry on its own and if not you will know. My dr. Said because  i had natural miscarriage i could start trying again ASAP but if i had a d & c then I should wait several cycles. I knew something was wrong if you don't have that feeling just wait it out...

Chemical Pregnancy? Doctor wants to do an D&C

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