I had my first baby in August 2018, she just turned 1 last week and amongst all the chaos of me planning and having her first birthday party with a massive family I hadn’t taken notice that my period was in fact late even though I’d had a few other early pregnancy symptoms like feeling super tired, heartburn, sore breasts..

So after I woke up in the middle of the night vomiting the night before last I decided to take a pregnancy test and sure enough it was positive. I took two more throughout the day and the next morning and they were both still positive.

The father is the same as my daughters father and he’s seemingly like he’s wanting me to have an abortion. I understand why, as we aren’t together (although he’s still extremely present in his daughters life) and I’m still living at my parents house, and part of me thinks I should have an abortion too. However I also feel like I should continue the pregnancy because I would love a sibling for my daughter and I also personally feel a bit ashamed terminating the pregnancy, like I’m ignoring my own responsibilities or something 🤷🏼‍♀️ (I have nothing against terminations, everyone should have the choice and access to terminations). I’m on the fence.

I guess I’m just asking if anyone’s been in a similar situation and can offer any advice?

I’m also 20years old in AUS.