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I really want to have sex with my bf and he wants to as well. I have read other posts and they all say to wait until your older and I’m 14 when do you think we should? Because we both are ready now.

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we cant stop you!
but when your 14 you think you are ready for everything!
only to find out that you come to regret it when your older.
just wait my love.

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Lol your not ready. We all been there.. please just wait a couple more years? Give yourself a chance to focus on school a little more. A lot of girls are becoming pregnant so young and i wouldn't want the same for you. At least they try wait till your a junior or senior to make a decision like that. There is no shame in waiting a little more. Be safe!

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I was 14 when I lost my v ,at the time I was really happy and thought that boy was my everything , ended up being the worst decision ,we ended up splitting up just before I turned 16 and had a really bad break up just before my GCSE’s. Because of losing it to him at that age and hormones already going crazy because I was young I thought I needed him and relied on him, lost concentration from my work and school and focused on the relationship more instead. I was putting things like our relationship as priority like adults when I was young and needed to be focusing on school. It’s completely up to you but I’d say wait if you love each other he’s not going anywhere and neither of you and if you finish school and you’ve split up then you’ve dodged a bullet🤷🏻‍♀️x

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I waited longer than most my friends, and kids these days. But I’m almost 30 now.. and to be honest it’s probably my ONLY REGRET. Not waiting just a little longer. I would have given it up to someone a whole lot more worthy. Don’t let your hormones decide for you. Masturbate (if that’s something you do - love yourself first) and then think about it with a clear mind. If you can talk to your mom (or a female adult you can talk to). No judgment anyway.
Be strong, and be safe.

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At your age all of my friends were doing it and I felt the pressure... I decided I wasn’t ready and gave myself a “deadline” or goal to wait until I was 16. Looking back now I still wasn’t ready. But I felt much more confident that I waited and didn’t just do it bc everyone else was. JS either way be safe! Planned parenthood gives our condemns for free! No questions asked. If you think your ready for sex you have to be ready to confidently protect yourself. At 16 I also went to my mom who was always very open with me. We went to my OB and got birth control. She knew I wasn’t sexually active but was thinking about it and she wanted to make sure I was fully prepared. I hope my girls will be just as open and honest with me.

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I was always convinced it was pretty much evil to have sex any younger than 18. I’ve grown since then but still think it’s a lot more risky at a young age. At 14, I still felt like a child. I waited till I graduated high school and was with a man that I knew I’d be with for a long time, if not forever, while all my friends had sex at around fourteen, and just ended up heartbroken because the relationships they were in were short lived and immature. I suggest waiting but it’s really up to you. Please look in to birth control methods first! And don’t ever let a boy talk you out of a condom if that’s what you need to feel safe from STDs and pregnancy.

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No you are not ready to have sex now. Don't do it WAIT into you a little older  before  you all have sex,  don't rush to have sex early. Good thing come to those who wait.  Be strong you can do it.

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I say this with love... do what you want but just be ready for the repercussions and consequences if something happens

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I get that way too, but, I’d wait a little bit longer.. then you guys could do TONS of stuff without it being a problem. You only have a couple years left of high school:)

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The first couple of times aren’t particularly amazing anyway, I’d just wait, but obviously it’s up to you! I was 17

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