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How can you leave a marriage when there’s constant arguing and saying hurtful things to each other but other days there’s love and good times. How can we replace that above everything else? Especially when there’s children. I need women who been through this advice?? Please

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If marriage counseling doesn’t work for you both and you’ve given your all to try to change the bad , and still doesn’t change then you should leave . Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical specially with kids . They will hear everything and that’s showing them that’s normal and ok . Just how you don’t deserve to be verbally abusive I’m sure you wouldn’t want your kids treated that way. Most times you both are good with each other as co parents then an actual couple , sounds like that’s what’s going on if you guys are saying hurtful things to one another .

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I left my marriage with my two children in December. It was hard but I just told him I wasn't happy and something had to be done

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You can because 
1. You respect yourself to know that even if 50% of the relationship is conflict, and 50% is good, the conflict will eventually make you sick from stress. Your health means you are there for your kids
2. Your children don't deserve to be surrounded by conflict. They see and hear everything, even if you don't think they do. They deserve two healthy and happy parents, even if that means they don't live together.
3. If you can't work out the conflict then have enough respect for yourself and your partner to leave. If you can work it out, then start respecting eachother and your kids and live conflict free. It is possible to wake up every morning content with where you are in life!

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