i’m not sure if this is the right group but 🤷🏽‍♀️

so i’ve been stuck on my ex. we had an amazing relationship and he took my virginity. we broke up back in february, but we’ve stayed friends with benefits since. just recently, we both decided that it would be best for the both of us to move on. it was nothing bad, and we’re still friends, but it just not the right time for us.

A little over a year ago before i met my ex, i used to work with this guy, and we always flirted back and forth, but nothing ever happened because he always had a girl. ever since i left, back in november, we always stayed close and talked often. since he broke up with his (now ex) girl, and since my ex boy ended things, we’ve gotten super super close, not on purpose, just kinda happened.

A few days ago, we were talking about how it’s been almost a year since seeing eachother, and how that was too long. we decided to make plans for tomorrow, and when planning, we didn’t know what to do, so he asked me, and then i said i didn’t care and so i asked him, and he gave me a few things he thought would be a good idea, “movies, go out to eat, drive around, to the mall” and i decided on eating and driving around. everyone i’ve talked to, my sister, parents and my brother in law, all said that it was a date. but i’m not sure, because over text it doesn’t really seem like he’s into me, because he’s dry while texting.

i don’t want to have expectations and assume when that this is a date, when it’s not, but i also don’t want to not be prepared for it to be a date.

Do y’all have any input? is this a date? help a girl out!!