9 dpo and looking for sanity!!

Lauren

So I am 9 dpo had sex at basically none stop during ovulation. In the past two days I have been nauseous, exhausted, severe lower abdominal pain just last night that was definitely not period craps. As well as brown cm spotting only once today and that was it. I know it’s still to early to test and I am to be honest not sure if I’m pregnant but I can’t help but take tests knowing it’s to early and they will be negative. My husband just left on a business trip and looking for tips and advice to pass the time till I can test.