I just can’t smeh😂😂😒👆

So i read people saying that fingering is good. But I wanna know how?! How is it “good”. I can only manage to put my fingertip up there yet even that still hurts. I don’t even wear tampons cause of this. And if I can’t do that, hows a bloody d**k gonna fit up there🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m in my late teens if you’re wondering. I’m actually going to be a virgin forever fml😂