How to initiate sex???

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My boyfriend has told me recently that he feels like he has to beg for sex because I never start it. He said it makes him feel unattractive which is completely opposite of how I see him. I always get awkward or nervous of him rejecting me (I know its irrational). Just wondering how you girls start sex? Thanks!

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When it starts getting intense just undo the button or fly on his pants and pull him closer to you 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Straddle him and get on top. Once you initiate he can get the hint and take it from there

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Same he always starts it I’m just to shy because sometimes I’ve wanted it and he is to tired and tells me I’m tired babe from work

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I usually just lean in for a kiss and kiss him kind of hard, if he's receptive and seems into it, I start running my hands down his body and if he still seems into it, then i rub his groin through his pants. From there, were both usually aware of what we'd like to do. Sometimes he just wants to make out, and so when I get to the hard kissing, he's into it. But then when I start my wandering hands, he might redirect them away from his groin. Of course, sometimes I just also ask him, but sometimes I'm feeling low about myself and am sometimes too embarrassed to ask. But the thing I described above always leaves me feeling good, even if all he wants is to kiss, I'm not embarrassed and I'm happy to be kissing and it's not like an awkward silence or anything. Hope this helps! Might help to try role play? Like agree, on a day your both feeling up to it, to "plan" to have sex later, but that you'll be romancing him. It can feel a little lame to plan, but can help you explore initiating sex and feel more comfortable with it.

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I just give him the ‘I need you’ look.