Lazy!!!

Y’all I have a dilemma. I live with this boy that just doesn’t do anything. I’m always cleaning up after him and having to make his meals. I also have to wipe his butt... YES HIS BUTT. He constantly complains about everything and takes everything out of my hands. He pulls my hair out EVERY single day. He shouts and yells & just seems very unstable. This relationship has become very un healthy because’s he’s just so clingy and I can’t even leave the room without him following me everywhere. He keeps me all to himself just so no one else can have me.. If I’m on my phone he sticks his face in front of it just to see what I’m doing or who I’m talking to. How do I send my 9 month old off to college already 🥴😂