Ladies, this us a public forum, where people can post pretty much whatever they want. However dont expect someone especially a group of women to not say something you dont like. Especially if you're doing something that is generally not recommended. Even if you do everything by the book someone, somewhere will tell you that you are doing it wrong. So instead of saying the "mom cops" are out or complaining a out your feelers getting hurt. Maybe think twice about what you're posting. Just saying yes there are "mom cops" but in the same breath they are just questioning your choices because they differ from either their own or arent what's recommended.