MIL, am I overreacting ?

Monica

So, I don’t leave my kids with my mom or mil a lot because I like to take them with me and I don’t go out much. When I do. Usually leave my kids with my mom. It’s easier because I can talk to her when she does things I don’t like and she’ll try and follow all my concerns. Well, his parents. Won’t reply our text. When I leave my babies. I don’t like for them To go out because I don’t want to be thinking about them and wondering if my son is listening and being safe. I only leave them 5 hours tops and not often. They take him out and we Only to find out because my son told me.

Well, I left them with them because my husband promised he talked to them.

It our anniversary and I’m going back to work.

My daughter loves to sit up. My son never did that. With him I never worried about strapping him all the way in his swing until he was older. She needs shoulder belts at all times. She likes to sit up. I told them, made it very clear. Got home she’s on the swing with out any straps. When she was walking up she stared to try and sit up. They said they didn’t strap her because they were with her. I’m very upset and bothered. I want to make a bigger deal about it but hate putting my husband in the middle. Any tips?