How long is a healthy seperation?

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Husband and I have been seperated for 11 months. Next month will be a full year. I haven't seen him in person since the end of December. I know what I want, and that's to be with him.
He's uncertain.
I'm afraid I might be waiting forever, and I'm never going to be able to heal.

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. If he is uncertain, move on. Life is too short.

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I think if you absolutely must separate you need to be in therapy to see if it can be saved. You’ll know right away if someone wants to save their marriage or leave. You’ll also know what the issues are and work on them

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I don’t think separations are healthy 🤷‍♀️

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That’s a long time not to see each other. Seems like he made up his mind, and he’s not coming back.

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I think that if you two are not on the same page. Then maybe you two shouldnt be together. It's easy for some people to know what they want and maybe he just isnt there yet. Maybe he is scared to tell you he doesnt want to be with you so as to spare your feelings. Either way, you have needs and want attention and love from someone that isnt willingly meeting you in the middle. You dont want to keep pushing for him to come back then he does just to please you. I cant tell you what is best, but I can tell you that you two arent at a happy balance and you deserve to be happy. There will be pain there will be healing to do, but after the mountain there will be a prairie of happiness. I wish you the beat and if he does figure it out and that he wants to be with you i wish both of you nothing but happiness a long life together and love.

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Get a divorce and move on. He is probably dating and keeping you as an option to boost his ego.

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A year is a very long time. This sounds harsh but I don’t see it working out if you haven’t seen each other for that long and he’s still unsure 😩 sorry xx

How long is a healthy seperation?

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