ginormous labia majora

so i have GINORMOUS outer lips. they hang down sooo low and they’re sooo fat. the thing is i’m not even fat. even when i open my legs as far as i can, my outer lips still cover anything. i’m a virgin, and my question is, how are guys supposed to find anything with this? i’m not talking about the hole, i’m talking about the clit. i have pretty big labia minora too PLUS a small clit so its almost impossible for ME to find it unless i’m in front of a mirror, legs spread apart, pulling my lips apart. wouldn’t that be embarrassing? when they’re fingering you and can’t find anything? how do i fix this? is there a way to make them smaller?