So most of our friends are single, are not married or are married and do not have kids. We have a couple we have been friends with for years and they don't have any kids they decided to have her tubes tied because they are in their mid 30s and have never had any desire too. Well our LO is 12weeks and they drove and hour one way to see us and meet our LO but before they came to visit we gave them the heads up that we would probably just grill out and not go out to eat because it would probably be packed with the holiday weekend and we still dont feel comfortable going out for long periods of time with our LO since I am EBF. I also mentioned I am breastfeeding every 2 hours during the day and every 4 throughout the night so i would be in the bedroom throughout the day. I also mentioned that our LO has been crabby and sometimes cries on and off all day. I honestly haven't wanted anyone to stay with us i mean visiting for a few hours is fine but I just haven't been in the mood to entertain anyone for a whole weekend. Well they got to our house yesterday and instantly wanted to go out to the bars since they have never been to our new town yet. My husband said no that we just planned on staying at the house. After them being at our house most of the day the guy said wow she sure does have to feed her alot why not just feed her formula or something so she doesn't have to keep going into the bedroom. I found that so annoying but i kept my mouth shut since i know they dont understand since they dont have kids. I ended up laying down with our LO around 7pm to get her ready for bed and i guess they thought i just didn't want them there because they ended up driving back home last night. My husband said they seemed annoyed a litte and made a comment how if we didn't want them there we should have just been honest. My husband said he told them that i was EBF and i was feeding every 2 hours and we wanted to start getting our LO on more of a sleep schedule. I ended up calling them today and asked why they left or what happened and she goes we just felt not wanted if we would have known you didnt want to hang out then we just would have never drove 2 hours total. I was seriously so annoyed and said well i am sorry you feel that way but our kids are#1 and it is not my fault you dont understand that. I also said if we are not fun anymore then dont worry about hanging out with us again then hung up.

Was i being to rude? 🤔