Some forms of pain have been getting me wet and I notice it more and more. Does that mean it’s my kink? I recently got with a new guy who is into less vanilla sex and have tried wax dripping from candles, whip, and paddle. It didn’t hurt and felt good like made me smile but didn’t make me moan like when a guy enters me vaginally. I don’t know what to mess with next or what to call this association. I don’t search for ways to get hurt and some things I have a hug pain tolerance and some things are way worst then they should be