Stupid MIL

Yep I am on here to rant about my MIL, me and my fiancé just bought a house and I have a 7 month old and am 12 weeks pregnant. Well every time she comes over she’s always scoping out the place, making sure everything is up to her standards and saying something when it’s not. I’m just wondering if this is normal? It’s fucking annoying and I really can’t stand her. Like yea I get it it’s your son and his house but it’s also MY house and I’m the one who takes care of it. She has ALWAYS babied my fiancé which I HATE!!!! Still gives him tons of gifts and money for birthday and Christmas (he’s 21) and anything he wants or asks for she will give it to him. And anytime he has a question about something (his mom is literally one of the dumbest people I have ever met and I am honestly NOT saying this bc I hate her. I could never understand how someone could seem to have the intelligence of a 3rd grader) he always calls his mommy and daddy when he has a problem or has a question AFTER I TELL HIM the solution or help him with his problem. I think it’s super annoying and he needs to grow up and I have told him this but he just says “oh they just know everything” when they have been so incorrect about so many things like almost everything. This is the same woman who told me I could start giving my son milk at 9 months old😡 ummm NO. And I don’t want to hear oh well that’s what they used to do. Yea USED to. She’s never even raised a baby and acts like she could be a better mother than ME when she also told me its wrong to keep babies rear facing until 2😡😡😡 she’s said so many STUPID things. She also cannot spell a single fucking word. Like worse than an 8yr old. She acts like I’m a terrible mother because I only fed my baby organic food for a long time. She also occasionally still brings up my fiancé’s ex girlfriends (like bullshit ass relationships from high school🙄) because she thought she saw one in the store or something. WHILE I was with her. And I swear if she sees a girl who she thinks is one she will STARE and keep looking. And that’s another thing, she swears everyone else is so nosey but she’s ALWAYS in other people’s business and shit.