My boyfriend is out of town for the weekend and has no service. I took a test friday and it was a big fat positive.. He doesn’t want kids yet.. we both talked about having kids. and he will make little side comments like “I can’t wait to raise a little mini me someday” but he doesn’t mean anytime soon..

Anyway I know he’ll be upset.. I just started moving in with him and i’m 2 hours from home.. i don’t wanna tell him because he’s made comments before saying he’ll be very mad if I ever ended up pregnant before we were ready. (which I understand)

I honestly am at the point of keeping it from him until he notices a big change in my stomach and asks me. i’m a tiny girl 5’1 and 107lbs so i feel like it won’t be too long for the bloat to show through...

i am scared it’ll ruin our relationship though.. & no i’m not saying i’ll choose him over my baby or anything. I just don’t wanna lose him or upset him or make him mad. I don’t know what to do. he comes home tomorrow. and I know for a fact I will not tell him I just can’t it scares me but not having his support is actually pretty hard especially now.. but I don’t know what to do honestly...

Advice?

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