Hey guys so Friday I go in for my 20

Week scan an we find out if I’m having a girl or boy! My husband can’t make it to the appointment because he’ll be out of town, but he says not to find out, to have the tech put the gender in an envelope an we can do a small reveal the next day or whenever we can do it but I’d rather just find out and not tell him lol but act surprised when we do the reveal. I just don’t really care for a reveal so I’d rather find out then an there! What would you do? Would you wait?