So on friday I had an ultrasound to check my baby's growth (I'm 35 weeks) and it didn't look very good. I'm having another ultrasound in two weeks to see how bad it is and if we need to induce. My husband and I have been devastated by this news. Might be silly since the baby will be fine, but it's been so hard on us knowing that our baby isn't doing very well. Is it wrong for us not to tell our family about it? I feel like I really want to focus on me and my husband. If we told our family they would be nagging us with their worries, not allowing us any space. I understand they would be worried of course, but I feel like we need to be allowed to feel our feelings, instead of having to take care of others feelings, if you know what I mean? Is it wrong? Is it selfish?