So I met this guy online on Pof we clicked automatically we continued to talk online 2 months later we’ve exchanged numbers afterwards we became friends on fb since then I’ve been running away from him not because he was abusive or anything I just let my fear of past relationships get to me eventually we had our first argument he wanted me to leave him alone, fine wish granted so he ended up coming out to New York he lives in Connecticut he has family in the city so he used the fact that he came to see family so we can finally meet. We finally met vibe was the same I couldn’t stop smiling I assumed he knew how I felt he spent a the night with up until it was time for him to go back home after a day of him being home the communication stopped then the overwhelming thoughts of being used came about i had told my sister about the situation and she told me not to over think too much something probably happened and damn sure she was right a week later I got a text from some girl who told me he was locked up and wanted to talk to me she happened to be a girlfriend of someone he had met while in jail so I gave her my information to give to him and he explained what happened he has the maximum of 3 years 1/2 on good behavior long story short he likes the way we vibe he accepts me for who i am and vice verse I love healing crystals and he loves it because I do he’s very quite and understanding and I couldn’t ask for anything more prior to him leaving nyc I told him that I accept his quietness he answered and said thank you and that it was the first time a female said that now he asked me to wait for him which I don’t mind doing he’s like a magnet we end up finding each other some way some how and I know this will be stressful mentally physically and emotionally any advice would be nice please and thank you... happy Sunday ladies ☺️💜