How do you initiate sex?

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I wanna hear how you lovely ladies initiate sex with your S/O. I’m not sure why it’s so hard for me to gain the confidence to imitate but I want to bc sometimes I want sex and he just goes to bed and I wonder if maybe I would’ve expressed I wanted it, we would’ve had sex lol

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I just grab my husband or like someone else said I will start rubbing him through his pants or cuddle up next to him in bed and rub my butt on him. But yes men are great with hints you just have to come out and say it lol

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I just randomly get naked and start walking around, and ask: wanna do it? No matter how tired or not in the mood he is, he very rarely says no.

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When I do it’s usually at night when we’re already in bed, I touch him a lot rub his body (slowly) and I’ll lower my hand as I’m rubbing but not really touch his penis cause I like him to get hard before anything or for him to want it and ask me and I will start to get my body closer to him as I’m doing it sometimes I will put my leg over him as I’m doing all this but not immediately maybe if you try to move slowly closer to him if you want you can kiss him and take your time it would make you feel comfortable as you go since you’re not just rushing and you’d both be slowly synchronizing into the mood and once you guys get into the mood you can initiate in your own way with whatever you’re into doing because it’s important for the both of you to be in the mood not just him since you mentioned you’re not so confident with at times, instead of just straight up asking or just getting straight to it bc that can be boring It makes my dude want it more like I know they won’t say no most of the time if you just ask or get naked but that can be I guess boring or low key they’re probably just like “fuck it” I guess.

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I used to be sly about it but he would never catch on and I would look at him like this. Now I'm straight forward and he is always down so. I think perhaps it's common for guys to not catch our hints 😄🙄

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I put on something sexy real quick when he has stepped out of the bedroom.  He lays on his back a lot to relax look at his phone or whatever so I’ll rip the covers back toss his phone an get on top of him an be goofy.  Cuddle him.  Touch him.  Ask r u gonna get naked or what? Sometimes after a shower I just won’t get dressed.. he gets the hint.  It’s taken awhile but I’m really comfortable now.  We have been married 10.5 years so after that an two kiddos together you learn each other’s quirks an what does it for the other person.

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This is my move. Totally cheesy. But it's my signature lol right before, I say something like..."Hey baby.." lmao it's so dead. But it's me hahahahh

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I touch his dick 😂😊 he's instantly hard and ready lol.x

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I get into bed naked, and make him grab my butt so he knows 🤷‍♀️😅
Or in the mornings, I don’t get dressed after I have a shower, walk around naked and grab him when he gets undressed to have a shower 😂

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At first it was hard for me too. I use to try to do little suttle things that would go unnoticed and it would make me less confident now I'm just super blunt about it now though, most men dont really get hints anyhow. I will just start rubbing him through his pants or just tell him. 
Women like to be seduced and slowly taken - most men just want to be taken.

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Tell him, Honey, I'm horny, wanna go upstairs?

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