Absolutely lost! HELP

Chantina

So my Af was suppose to come aug.29th and i still haven't got it. Took 2 pregnancy test that came out negative. I've never been this late before I'm like 22 dpo, and my cervix that i can tell hasn't changed in anyway for the last 5 days. And tmi but my vagina feels softer than normal and wet. Has this happened to anyone? I've had symptoms where I thought i was pms. But with 2 neg test I'm just drawing blanks