There should be an option for 0, because I had absolutely no pain.

My first time was a guy with well a large member. But I was comfortable and pretty relaxed I was little nervous too but honestly after the first few thrusts it hurt less. He was gentle and pretty slow at first I was the one who sped things up. Don't sweat it too much, it's not that painful if you're relaxed, and comfortable, it is painful but not the way everyone explains it, and again his member was very large well large for me. It was about 7 or 8 inches and trust me that's more than enough. Be safe! Best wishes to anyone loosing thier virginity.

my first time hardly hurt, my second time hurt like a bitch for some reason!

Depends if you mean first time with a person or first time with a toy. I spent a long time getting used to a vibe, so when I was first with someone it wasn't really my first time having something up there lol

8. We just stretched it. So he would go in and out a little each time before he was fully in and it really helped.

Definitely a 10 but my first time involved a rather humongous guy to say the least 😶

The big thing is making sure that you are feeling relaxed, and that the person you're with is respectful and moves at the pace you want. I highly suggest getting some lube to go over the condom, getting things as slick and smooth as possible will help a lotand can keep you from bleeding. The first time I did it was not so great- as another girl here said, just the tip went in and I was not having it, but getting some lube and moving a little also we made everything fantastic.