**This is long but please read I need advice **

So it’s not so problematic but I think I hold a grudge too much.

So one thing I’m upset about is a couple months ago my husband and his sister got tickets to a football game in November. She paid he didn’t pay anything. Ok but he didn’t ask me or run it by me like “hey do u think it’s ok” or anything he didn’t worry about the kids or who was going to watch them all day. I could never do that it would never cross my mind to make plans for a whole day without running it by him or thinking of the kids. But he can he did. I’m upset this has been an ongoing argument. And today it’s football Sunday I get it but his family basically invited themselves over to watch the game at our house. I don’t like people over my home is my safe place I’m not a people person I suffer from anxiety. But I feel like he doesn’t care about me my feelings. I said no well his family is here. My house is small paper thin walls game time is around my sons nap time if he doesn’t nap enough he’s fussy and Then I have to deal with him. I hope someone understands me my side I feel alone like no understands

He says I’m crazy or weird bc I don’t want people over but I’m the same with my family it’s nothing against his family. But I get anxiety having people here. Yea maybe I need help but I wish he would understand me. Am I wrong ?? Any advice ?