Every time I see my mom, she makes a comment about how "fat" I am or about how much I am eating. When not pregnant, I am a thin to average build. I gain a lot of weight while pregnant. I've gained around 30 pounds at 30 weeks already.

My mom has always been heavily built, and as bad as this sounds, I think she does this to compensate for her own insecurities. She is typically a very negative person but I've learned to look past it, mostly. I do not believe she actually thinks I'm "fat".

But it bothers me, every time. I've been struggling with self image and find it hard to enjoy intimacy lately due to my lack of confidence, though my husband still seems attracted.

Just once I told her to please stop, but she continues to have comments every time I see her. I have never been confrontational with her because she is somewhat sensitive, and because I love her and don't want to start drama. What do I do? Just keep pushing it aside?