Will you have friends or family waiting in the waiting room at the hospital while you’re in labor? See description for why I ask... open to any advice!

Last pregnancy I had both sides of entire family present. As soon as they were able, all 20 people stormed in the room after I had been hemorrhaging and almost had to go into a procedure from losing all the blood. This time around I want privacy and to be able to tell people when I’m ready for visitors. Plus my in laws constantly ask questions and want more info, were texting the whole time asking for more info, and share info with others even when we ask not to. My husband doesn’t understand why I want privacy this time around. Its for both my own comfort and peace of mind in sharing our news.