Would you be upset if your boyfriend was really friendly with other women?

Question

My boyfriend is in grad school, and he’ll help out some of his female co-students, and they’ll be all “Omg, you’re the BeSt” 😒 and I don’t know why, but it makes my blood boil? 
Can someone just set me straight and tell me I’m insane for feeling this way? Preesh

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Really friendly, how? Being nice and offering advice/help, that’s fine. Flirting or having romantic banter? HELL no.

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My boyfriend is like this. He just likes to helps people and talk to people. And girls like him so stuff like what you describe just tends to happen. It bothers me sometimes but he’s been loyal to me for 3 years and counting so I wouldn’t worry about your man too much just yet

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In my relationship, my bf is allowed to have female friends. I dont police him or how he chooses to interact with them. However I also dont feel the way you do. If you are feeling that way, you should sit down with your bf and try to talk about it. It's not either of your faults, so don't treat it like that. It's just a problem that you guys can choose to do something about. It's you and him against the problem. Maybe theres a solution that you guys can come to an agreement about. If you guys treat each other with respect and dont take everything as a personal attack, you guys can accomplish a lot.

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Depends on what super friendly is. My partner is really nice and strikes up conversations with people on his jobs or cashiers and who ever he can talk to. He’s incredibly nice and charming but he’s never flirtatious. If he were going beyond just being friendly I would be unhappy for sure but I also know there’s a line between nice and flirting with him.

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Glad my husband isn't jealous like this, because my math professors often had me help students with their work when he was already helping another student or was busy. My husband taught students how to run a nuclear reactor and often talked to young college students. Thank god I didn't see that as being flirty Haha

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That doesn’t sound like overly friendly. Is he going over to their place to help out with other stuff? Is he flirting back with them if they do flirty with him? If not, and it’s literally just helping out with school it just sounds like he’s a good guy... you should probably have a little more trust in your guy.

Would you be upset if your boyfriend was really friendly with other women?

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