When should I sleep with him?

Question

Hi, so I've been with my bf for 3 weeks and so far nothing has happened. He really wants sex and keeps asking to finger me ... He is my first bf and I was wondering what your opinions were about this 😊
P.s. I'm a virgin but I feel so comfortable around him that I think it would be awkward but that isn't really holding me back or anything
Thanks for your help xxx

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Personally, I think 3 weeks is too little time. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and we're still virgins. I choose to wait so I know I'll never regret losing it. Don't rush. Try some sexual stuff, sure. But there's no need to go all the way just now.

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It was 3 weeks into my relationship now that we did anything but not sex. We started with using our hands and mouths. It took 2 months before we had sex but it felt right. We were grinding on each other before this and nearly had sex but I got scared which was fine he respected that. Just take your time about it wait until it feels right. Maybe try other things is read of going straight into sex. Good luck ☺️

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Sleep with him when you feel like your ready, don't rush yourself into something you might regret. Always use protection too. You will be nervous at first too but if you relax it will feel great, good luck!

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I had sex with my boyfriend at three weeks... And I lost it to him as well. But considering we see each other every day, for hours at a time, it seems as though we've been together for forever now.

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I was with my boyfriend 11 months before we had sex, but only 3 months when we started using hands and mouths. Do what you are comfortable with and do NOT rush! Personally I believe 3 weeks is not long enough to feel ready, but if you feel comfortable and ready, do what you want:)

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Don't rush in to it if you want to sleep with and you feel happy knowing that he will be your first then do it but use protection

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You'll know when it feels right babe. Don't feel you have to make a decision because he wants it, just relax and take things slow, it'll mean a lot more when the time comes.

When should I sleep with him?

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