My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years(two years on the 30th) and she’s gone away to college and I’m enlisting in the Air Force and we been talking about this and she was telling me she was at peace with everything and taking everything well and I wasn’t on the other hand. So we had been arguing over petty stuff since she left and then one day I call her and she’s crying and basically telling me she’s depressed and her mental health isn’t where it should be and she doesn’t want to have the stress of a relationship right now. And it was hard to hear and understand but after talking to her I told her that I want to help her and then help our relationship when it’s time. After her trying to push me away she’s finally okay with that and way before all this she planned on coming home this weekend and she still is but doesn’t want to talk about her mental health or us. And I just want to act like things are normal and kiss her do all the couple things and spend the night with her while she’s here but what if she regrets me? What to I do? Do I ask her before she even comes ?