Can't orgasm?

Question

Hi girls, so I've had 3 long term boyfriends (including my current one) but I have never ever had an orgasm. I manage to make myself orgasm but boys just can't seem to do it correctly!!! Any help? Thank you! ☺️

Answer

I had this before. I got so fed up I had sex with my boyfriend and the whole time was instructing him on what to do. Now it's great, I orgasm every time. Sometimes you have to take the lead and show them how it's done. Don't be afraid to share what your thinking

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This is quite a common occurrence. A lot of times, orgasms aren't just about what's physically happening to your body, but also mentally. If you're feeling under any pressure to orgasm (from either yourself or your partner) that can stall your body, if you are getting yourself stressed out that whatever they're doing isn't working, this can also stall orgasm! I find if I chase an orgasm, it makes it a lot harder to reach. When you make yourself orgasm, if you're using any toys, this can desensitise yourself a little and make it a lot harder to come without anything vibrating being involved. I've never had an orgasm through sex without clitoral stimulation (like most), either from his stomach or from my hands. Just keep going with it, use your hands whilst you're having sex and I'm sure it'll come naturally. The more you stress- the more you'll struggle!

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Girl... I'm right with ya.... 5 years with my husband... He was good the first 3 years the last two years.... I have to have a vibrator or some toy during sex to help me orgasm smh

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