Vent about bf

So apparently I’m a “wanna be lesbian who wants to “fuck other dudes”.

What have I done to make him feel like he can say this to me?

He makes the excuse of me “changing my password when he ‘caught me’ talking to other people” but literally i told him about the guy and my password, and it was only on snap so the guy never had my number, it was an old friend (never done anything with him) and I started talking to him after I caught my bf flirting with other girls. I still couldn’t try and flirt with the guy, even if my bf was flirting with other people. I just felt like there’s no reason why I can’t talk to people if he’s going to do that shit behind my back.

He told me to get rid of him so I delete him, BUT because I didn’t block him the guy still had access to message me and that became my fault too...

FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT IN MAY and he would ask if the child was his, like we don’t fucking live together and work together, spending damn near every hour of the day together. (At that time)

Also, because I got a new job that has female friends that I can actually enjoy their company, I stay a little longer sometimes because when I get home I have nothing to do, and my bf won’t get home until a few hours later anyways but he gets annoyed, and asks a lot of questions. Why is any of this a problem???? That’s what makes me lesbian because I hang out with females??

He says all I do is “check out girls” but I’m sure 99%-100% of females look at other girls outfits for one and isn’t looking at the girl sexual in any way. Like would he like me to start looking at guys?? Would that make me “less lesbian” in his eyes???

I can’t listen to certain artists because apparently I want to “fuck” them too.

If a certain artist comes out with new music and I play it to much he “suspects” me to want to fuck them too.

I can’t have ANY male friends what so ever but he has female friends - i’m not even upset with it either- and when he asks me a random name which ends up being an old friend from high school or even middle school, he gets mad for the rest of the day... he won’t confront anything though just leave me pissed. And if the people from my past hit me up first it’s my fault.

My body count is 5 and he told me his is well over 100 so why do you even have room to say shit like this?

I was on the phone with him fed up he has been distant with me today and just making smart remarks, and when I confronted him, he said he “didn’t know what side of the field I’m on”. He’s “scared” to even go through my phone because he doesn’t know what he’ll find.

Claims he doesn’t know my code but he’s known it forever... last week I asked him to open my phone to see something on it and he didn’t ask me what the code was.

He says that I can’t “share my love” and it’s either all of his or not because he’s not sharing... like who tf else is there ??? The female friends I’ve had before you ??

He says that I only started caring for him when I found out I was pregnant with his kid.

Any real tv? FORGET IT!! Any show that has sex scenes makes him weirded out that I’m watching it ESPECIALLY if I’m watching it when he’s not at home. So a majority of my shit is anime just to not have an argument.. don’t get me wrong anime’s are fun but I don’t only want to watch cartoons all fucking day..

Honestly if you’re reading until the end I applaud you because some people I say some of these things to they say stop talking about it because it’s going to piss them off. I just need to know what tf I should really start doing? We’ve been dating for a little over a year, I’m 4 months pregnant with this guy, i don’t want a broken family, but I also don’t want to waste my life away because someone has insecurity problem... like he puts me in the category of his ex/baby momma. It’s fucking stupid.