its my birthday today and I was expecting he'll wish me at midnight. he isn't an expressive person but isnt this the bare minimum that i can expect out of him? he never says he loves me which im okay w because i dont want him to act in a way he doesn't want to. on other days he's like up and doing shit on his phone and today he decided to sleep at 11 pm? he's never had a gf before and he's not very close w his friends either but this is the least he could do? i turned 22 this year and it might seem like im too old for this but im setting the bar really low here. i try to keep my expectations to the minimum. he couldn't even pick a gift for me by himself. i always try to convey my expectations to him by words, try to talk things out if there are problems.

i only moved out from my parents home last year and i still get homesick on special days. am i overreacting? do i have to put it into words to him that 'hey, its my birthday. please wish me. it will make me feel better.' i prolly sound like a bitch who's never satisfied but i really am trying. im sorry, just had to rant.