Tongue/Snake eyes piercing..

So I am currently pregnant and due in January so I have some time to think about it this but ... I have a decent size tattoo on my shoulder blade, and the entire inside of my right forearm tattooed as well. I have had my nose done 2-3 times, my lip done twice and my belly button. I’ve sized up to a 4g lobe earring about 6 separate times, a conch piercing, anti-tragus, forward helix, helix, a regular flat cartilage piercing and 3 lobe piercings. Out of everything, my forearm tattoo, my gauges and anti-tragus were the most “painful” but nothing unbearable tbh. With that being said though, I am TERRIFIED to get my tongue done. I’ve debated this off and on for years as it’s hard to get a simple answer to “does it hurt/how bad does it hurt” when everyone and their pain tolerance is different. I think it won’t be that bad, but then I pinch my tongue a little and die inside 😩😩. Even biting it is awful. I was thinking of maybe taking a little .5 Xanax beforehand for my anxiety as that’s the worst part for me, but I’m just still so nervous. What was your actual piercing like vs the healing process, and if you have both piercings which was less painful in your opinion. Any advice is appreciated, or even just share your experience!