I need honest opinions. Maybe I'm just overthinking all of this, idk.

So my husband is always talking about this local snap chat thing. Apparently its suppose to be for the college but it grew bigger. Anyways he always talks about it, and how his friend always adds his selfies to it of him flexing and stuff. He's a big buff guy. So today I was like hm I'm gonna add this thing and see what it's actually about. It's nothing but like nude/sexy pictures. Again of locals. And what's weird is that my husband is never on snapchat or instagram around me. Yet he talks about checking it all the time. So the fact he never checks it around me is starting to raise a red flag. Especially when he talks about it so much.

Not to mention I've caught on to him 'liking' other girls pictures on facebook which is whatever, but again he only does it when he's not around me. More so like when he's away for work. Which idc about him liking the pictures. But only doing it when he's not home is a little odd.

He also recently just got a lock on his phone. We've been married for four years and the only time he has ever had a lock was when we first got married and he was actually hiding stuff that I found. 🤔🤔

I hate assuming stuff, but things just arent adding up.

Would you ladies even be ok with your man following a snap chat like that??